Denial Fails Me Now, or F*ck Cancer!!!

National Cancer Institute at the National Institutes of Health

In group yesterday afternoon, my psychiatrist recommended genetic testing for hereditary cancer syndromes (of which there are 50). He advocated doing so to guide future medical care, rather than living in denial or in fear. I am not at risk, but my son and husband may be. They are private, as is my large extended family. My husband is one of eight children. Three of his four brothers either currently have or have had cancer. Those are not good odds. One brother recently went from stage 2B to stage 4 quite rapidly.

Please pray for my brother-in-laws, especially the one facing stage 4. Please pray for my husband, my son, and for all my in-laws and loved ones touched by cancer. Whether or not you are the praying sort, please join me in telling cancer exactly how we feel about what it does to those we love: F*CK YOU, CANCER!!!

For more information about Genetic Testing for Hereditary Cancer Syndromes from the National Cancer Institute at the National Institutes of Health visit:


18 responses to “Denial Fails Me Now, or F*ck Cancer!!!”

  1. Will be praying for your brothers-in-law and the rest of those that suffer from this horrible disease, Kitt.

    <3 Dani

  2. Thank you, Zephyr. Congratulations on the 8th anniversary of your engagement to your husband. May you enjoy many more years of mutual love, respect, and support.

  3. I will definitely pray for you and your family every time I pray. May you be protected and those who have, heal for this awful disease. You have all my support. Stay strong !

  4. Thank you so much, Diane. I am so sorry for your losses. I will include you and your family in my prayers.

  5. I recently went through the same feelings about cancer… There were 10 of us (only 3 now) but 5 died of cancer… and in our church prayer list there are so many with cancer …. it just made me so angry…. I will say a prayer for your family….. Diane

  6. Indeed it is possible to beat. My mother has lived with non-Hodgkins lymphoma for over 30 years. She has come back from stage 4 twice. She is alive thanks to monoclonal antibody therapy, Rituxan. She was part of the original clinical trials. She now lives with a tumor in her thigh and has most recently undergone radiation therapy since the cancerous growth did not respond to Rituxan. My two other brother-in-laws are currently cancer free.

  7. I love God. I hate cancer.

  8. Thank you, Laura.

  9. Yes, we are conquerors. Thank you for including us in your prayers. I will keep you in mine.

  10. Yes. Some people do not want to know. I believe it depends on whether there is anything you can do. Early detection of cancer makes a huge difference in prognosis.

  11. Thank you, Dyane.

  12. Stepping up the prayers, especially for the brother-in-law!! and your husband! What a f**** thing the big C is! I lost my best friend, my bro and both my parents to it. But it is possible to beat. That is where the prayers will come in, Kitt. Hugs, dear Kitt, hugs!

  13. I’ll pray too! However, please don’t use that word, especially if you’re trying to implore God’s help.
    God bless,

  14. They’re all in my thoughts. Fuck cancer!

  15. Kitt, you and your fellow family members will be now on my weekly prayer list. I’ve been through it and survived. WE ARE CONQUERORS! Bless you all.

  16. sometimes you can know too much. I am not sure I would want to know this but each person must decide for themselves. I wish the best for your son and husband.

  17. I will definitely hold your entire family in prayer, Kitt! And of course you can count on me, your potty mouth friend, to tell cancer to f*ck off and to kiss my butt!

    xoxo special prayers will go out to your brother-in-law facing stage 4

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