Unraveling

After a week of crisis intervention, starting with calling 911 upon realizing my mom had had a stroke last Saturday, I’m coming undone. Time for a break.
Luckily, my sister and I got reserves (husbands and sons) helping us out with our parents today. I plan to go home and take Sunday as a day of rest. Wish me well. Wish us well. Keep up the prayers. Thank you.

Kitt O'Malley2015-11-21T09:11:13-08:00November 21st, 2015|Categories: Bipolar Disorder, Family, Health, Mood Cycling, Triggers to Mood Cycling|Tags: Self care, Stroke, stroke rehabilitation|64 Comments

About the Author: Kitt O'Malley

Bipolar Writer & Mental Health Advocate

64 Comments

e December 3, 2015 at 9:09 am

So grateful & glad to hear??????
Kitt O'Malley December 3, 2015 at 8:28 am

Love what you wrote, e:
“Don’t be afraid to breathe again. Don’t be afraid to let God breathe into you again. Don’t be afraid of the sound of your resuscitation.” (© Ericka Arthur and authenticitee, 2015)
Thank you for your prayers. Amen and God bless you.
e December 3, 2015 at 7:42 am

JUST SEEING THIS. HOLDING YOU CLOSE. Praying my latest piece is encouraging Kitt. Much love?
Kitt O'Malley November 27, 2015 at 10:39 am

Thank you, Bob.
Anonymous November 26, 2015 at 9:38 pm

Dear Kitt, I feel like I’m way behind the power curve but that might not be a bad thing. I’m certain that your need for thoughts, prayers, and positive, peaceful energy coming your way will be going on for some time.
Do take care of yourself, even if that means only a few minutes to breathe, meditate, and remember that there are many of us out here.
Bob Hall
Kitt O'Malley November 24, 2015 at 9:10 pm

Thank you, Wendy.
Kitt O'Malley November 24, 2015 at 9:09 pm

Thank you.
Kitt O'Malley November 24, 2015 at 9:08 pm

Thank you.
wendy November 24, 2015 at 11:32 am

Thoughts are with you in this time of crisis. Glad you have some support. Remember to use it. Take time out when you need it. Just back off and take care of you first. You are no good to anyone if you aren’t good to you. You have developed great coping strategies. I believe in you. This is a trying time. If things get out of hand. Remember, you are doing the best you can. Be gentle with yourself. My heart goes out to you and your family right now.
bipolarsojourner November 23, 2015 at 7:05 pm

I understand that what you are going through the must be difficult. keep the faith and do t forget to stay well yourself; it is done difficult to help if you haven’t recharged and don’t have energy. my wish, my prayer for you is you find the energy to not only pull your mo. through this but also stay woo, yourself. may bless you and keep you with him
robertmgoldstein November 23, 2015 at 6:31 pm

be well my friend…:)
Kitt O'Malley November 23, 2015 at 2:05 pm

Thank you so much Robert. Greatly appreciate your ongoing support and your earnest prayers.
Kitt O'Malley November 23, 2015 at 2:04 pm

My father wanted us to move in, but we have a life in our community. It’s our home.
robertmgoldstein November 23, 2015 at 10:16 am

Kitt, I;m sorry to hear about your mom and your recent struggles. You are in my mind and my heart…my prayers are with you.
sheridegrom - From the literary and legislative trenches. November 23, 2015 at 3:21 am

I’m happy to hear you are not moving in with your parents. I’m also glad your sister is there to help locate appropriate living arrangements for your parents. It’s so hard for us [as in your parents] to make what seems like our final choice of where to live. My heart goes out to both you, your parents and your sister.
Kitt O'Malley November 22, 2015 at 9:52 pm

Thank you so much!
Jay November 22, 2015 at 2:10 pm

I’m so sorry to hear. I’m sending my best thoughts and hope that everyone is doing better and taking care.
Kitt O'Malley November 22, 2015 at 1:38 pm

I got the other comment. Thank you for taking the time to comment again. Love you! I realize you get it, as you are a nurse.
Kitt O'Malley November 22, 2015 at 1:37 pm

Thank you, Dayle! We miss you all. We keep you, Jeff and Lyndsy in our prayers, too.
Kitt O'Malley November 22, 2015 at 1:34 pm

My sister does not live nearby, but she is visiting until we find an excellent assisted living placement near me for both our parents. My father loves his home and wants us to drop everything and move in with them, but that’s not going to happen. I dropped my guard a couple of times and considered it, but I would end up psychiatrically hospitalized due to the stress.
Kitt O'Malley November 22, 2015 at 1:28 pm

Thank you, Lauren!
Dayle and Jeff Nichols November 22, 2015 at 12:13 pm

Kitt, just remember that you are not alone and have lots of support. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Get rest. Xoxo, Jeff and Dayle (not sure if my other comment was posted but wanted to make sure you knew we are thinking about the O’Malleys)
Anonymous November 22, 2015 at 12:08 pm

Kitt, Jeff and I are thinking about you and your family. Glad you’re taking a break. Hugs, Jeff and Dayle
sheridegrom - From the literary and legislative trenches. November 22, 2015 at 9:48 am

Kitt – So sorry to learn your mother had a stroke. I’m so glad you have help dealing with the crisis. I pray your sisters step to the plate and take on the serious caregiving. As Vic wrote above, take care of yourself. I often put myself way down on the list of taking care of myself – but don’t do as I do, take Vic’s advise. please.
thebipolarmama November 22, 2015 at 7:02 am

I am so sorry for all that is going on. I wish you nothing but peace and relaxation.
Kitt O'Malley November 22, 2015 at 6:37 am

Thank you, Mihran.
mihrank November 21, 2015 at 11:28 pm

wishing you well, good health and stay strong..You are in our prayers…
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 11:27 pm

Thank you, Samina!
Bipolar1Blog November 21, 2015 at 10:51 pm

Wishing you very well, so glad you have reserves. Get some rest, relax a bit. I’m sending lots of positive thoughts for your mom as well.
Vincent S Artale Jr November 21, 2015 at 6:33 pm

You’re welcome Kitt!
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 6:07 pm

Thank you, Vincent.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 6:06 pm

Thanks.
Vincent S Artale Jr November 21, 2015 at 4:50 pm

So glad to here that Kitt, a gift from God for sure. Amazing testimony of family support…
vanbytheriver November 21, 2015 at 4:28 pm

Oh my, your hands are full. Stay strong.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:04 pm

Thank you
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:04 pm

My sister and I are blessed. We married brothers who love us deeply and support us unconditionally.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:03 pm

Thank you so much, blahpolar. Greatly appreciate it.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:02 pm

Thank you, Vic. Great advice. Right now, I’m simply lying in bed and resting.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:01 pm

Too true. Thank you.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:01 pm

Once the dust settles
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:00 pm

Thank you so much
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 4:00 pm

Indeed they are. Add parents alcoholism and need to take legal action to handle finances and relocate them to assisted living brings even more stressful triggers.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 3:58 pm

Thank you and God bless you.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 3:58 pm

Thank you. Prayers greatly appreciated.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 3:57 pm

Thank you. Lying down in bed right now. Husbands entertaining sons at beach. Sister with parents at rehab.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 3:56 pm

Thanks
Erica Herd November 21, 2015 at 2:53 pm

I wish you strength and peace, Kitt. I know how hard it can be.
Vincent S Artale Jr November 21, 2015 at 2:04 pm

Reblogged this on Talmidimblogging and commented:
Thank God for your reserves Kitt! Lord bless you and yours. Rest as comfortably as you can…
blahpolar November 21, 2015 at 1:07 pm

You’re in my thoughts and so is your mother. Hugs my friend.
Just Plain Ol' Vic November 21, 2015 at 12:51 pm

You always tell me to not forget to take care of myself, now I have an opportunity to return the favor with that excellent advice. Find some time for yourself and treat yourself to something special, even if it is a simple long & hot bath. Take care and thinking of you!
Silver Threading November 21, 2015 at 12:43 pm

Take care, Kitt. We can only do so much. Sending you hugs my friend. <3
Lizzy November 21, 2015 at 11:25 am

I will keep you in my prayers. You need to get away to a quiet relaxing place for a holiday. Stay strong, hon.
SassaFrassTheFeisty November 21, 2015 at 11:21 am

{Hugs} Strongs my dear friend
vanbytheriver November 21, 2015 at 10:53 am

Be careful, Kitt, those are some powerful triggers. Thinking of you. ?
Wysjoyfulcompany November 21, 2015 at 10:51 am

Prayer lifting you and your support!
bpnurse November 21, 2015 at 10:39 am

Praying for all of you during this challenging time. Good for you for taking care of yourself!
trentpmcd November 21, 2015 at 10:06 am

Take your break and recharge. Let the reserves deal with it. Wishing you well.
idioglossiablog November 21, 2015 at 10:04 am

Well wishes for you all. G-uno
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 9:56 am

Thank you, Dy. Today will be a short visit at acute stroke rehab, then I’ll head back home with Nick & Matthew.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 9:54 am

Greatly appreciate your prayers.
Kitt O'Malley November 21, 2015 at 9:54 am

Thank you, Josh.
dyane November 21, 2015 at 9:31 am

I’ll think of you daily, keep you & your family in my prayers & I’m so, SO glad you’ll be resting tomorrow. Get somer rest time today if it all possible too, sweetie. Love you very much!!!!!!
mythoughts62 November 21, 2015 at 9:19 am

Will be praying…
Josh Wrenn November 21, 2015 at 9:15 am

Best of luck, thoughts, and good energy to you and yours.

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